Domestic Violence Advocacy Center
Pets & Domestic Violence

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“The bond between pets and their owners can be very strong, which is exactly why an abuser knows they can exploit the victim’s love of a pet by threatening to injure the animal if the victim speaks up.”                                                                                                                                                  Ida Petkus, director of the Domestic Violence Advocacy Center in Mount Holly Newark Star Ledger, May 30, 2010

 

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In their lifetimes, approximately one in four women will be victims of domestic violence. Given that more than 71 million U.S. households include companion animals as pets, it is inevitable that many of those households will experience both domestic violence and animal abuse. In fact, in a study of intentional animal abuse cases, 13 percent involved incidents of domestic violence, 7 percent co-existed with child abuse and 1 percent involved elder abuse.

When domestic violence victims with pets consider fleeing abusive homes and there is no safe place to house their pets, they have little choice but to remain in their homes and subject themselves, their children and their pets to continued violence, or to flee and leave their pets behind.

Because victims understand the extent of the harm that their abusers will likely inflict upon their pets, if left behind, many victims remain in violent relationships. Currently, numerous programs provide procedures for housing family pets off-site at animal shelters or with animal rescue groups, and many shelters are following such a plan. According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence’s 2004 National Directory of Domestic Violence Programs, more than 700 shelters across the country provide assistance or referrals for placement of pets; however, at the start of the PAWS Program in February 2008, American Humane was aware of only four shelters that actually provide on-site housing for pets.

Safety Planning And Your Pet

Walking the dog
A daily walk can be used as a way to look at the layout of your neighborhood and to plan a possible escape route.  A walk can also be used as an excuse to leave the house when you sense that a volatile situation is about to erupt.

Create a Safety Plan that Includes Your Pet

If you are planning on staying...

  • Keep emergency provisions for your pet in case your abuser withholds money.
  • Keep the phone number of the nearest 24 hour emergency veterinary clinic
  • Establish ownership of your pet by creating a paper trail (e.g., obtain a license, have veterinarian records put in your name).

If you are planning to leave...

  • Obtain safe emergency shelter for pet, somewhere that won't be disclosed to your abuser (e.g., veterinarian, friend, family, etc.)
  • Pack a bag for your pet that includes:
    • food
    • medicine
    • documents of ownership (receipts, vet records, license to establish ownership, receipts for animal purchases)
    • lease
    • carrier
    • toys 
    • bedding

(If you must leave without your pet, remember to leave enough food, fresh bedding, litter, etc. for your pet.)

If you have left...

  • Keep pets indoors (if possible)
  • Don't let the pet outside alone
  • Pick a safe route and time to walk your pet
  • Don't exercise/walk pet alone
  • Change your veterinarian

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